Christmas Guest
Dear Frankie,
I just got a big lecture from my mom about being friendly and welcoming to Boomer, her boyfriend’s dog, who will be staying with us for three nights over Christmas.
She said I should remember the meaning of Christmas is joy and peace.
That’s all well and good for her to say, but she doesn’t have to spend time or sleep next to Boomer, who stinks, slobbers, and snores. Besides, he’s boring, lazy, and never wants to play.
Where’s the joy and peace in the holiday for me? If I had my way, I would spend the holiday with my nana, who is in the nursing home. At least it’s quiet there, and I would get a lot of snacks from her and her friends.
Should I ask my mom if I can spend the holiday with my nana?
Bert
Dear Bert,
I agree that Boomer doesn’t sound like much of a fun guy. Before asking your mother, check the nursing home’s overnight rules. Dogs may not be allowed, and the staff could find it a burden to walk and feed you.
Instead, consider asking your dog park friends to invite you for playdates or overnights. If that’s not possible, you might feign a mild illness and suggest you avoid Boomer, in case he catches it.
Remember, if none of my suggestions work, it’s only for three nights.
Best, Frankie
© 2025 Geneva Woodruff
Comments and letters can be sent to Frankie at dearfrankiecolumn@gmail.com. The Fairhaven Neighborhood News publishes the Dear Frankie column. To receive a free online subscription, readers can email neighbnews@comcast.net, request their name be added to the email list or visit www.neighbnews.com to read the paper online or to download the latest issue.
•••
Click here to download the 12/11/25 issue: 12-11-25 ChampionGame
Support local journalism, donate to the Neighb News with PayPal
